Jan McArthur passed away this morning

[MikeB]

My Dearest Gentleman Jim,

I cannot believe that the Lady Jan has passed.

I had the privilege of meeting truly the most enchanting and captivating of spirits in life. To be around Jan McArthur wasn’t just a privilege it was an honour and your love for one another was abundantly evident – even to those who are oblivious to such things.

The radiance that Mike has already spoken of is so easily, I think, proven. For those who weren’t there at the legendary May 2009 UBC meet, we had a lovely meal in the pub round the corner from the hotel, Mike and I arranged a bottle of Jan’s favourite tipple Champagne and cranberry juice as a toast to your attendance. The Barman was due to go to the USA within a couple of weeks and was completely taken with you, our dynamic duo. I think we all kind of passed the time of day as you do with said barman, but nothing special.

At the following October UBC meet a few of us headed on down to the same pub and unusually these days, the same barman was working. I mentioned to him that we were looking for a bottle of champagne and some cranberry juice as a toast to our dear friends in the USA who couldn’t be with us. His reaction was incredible …….are they here?.......the American couple………..are they here? – He was so gutted when he learnt that you weren’t.

I’m rambling, I know, but you’re right Jim, somehow it helps.

Although it may have been later in life when you met, Mike always says “you wouldn’t have liked me when I was younger and I wouldn’t have appreciated you” I’ve seen photos of him – and he’s right! Good things come to those who wait! However long we are with or exposed to these wonderful people, our lives are enriched and we are better people for knowing them.

Jan is already missed and as each day goes on it will as they say get easier, but with each day we will also remember more and more of her here. She made sure we could never forget her – and we shouldn’t. She is a rare and beautiful creature.

One of my fondest memories is the cheeky spin she put on my description of the adorable little “garter pistol” she kept - I’m sure you know what I’m talking about.

I could witter all night, but I’m sure you, Jim, have other more pressing matters to be getting on with.

Love to all of you, especially my true love, my soul mate, Mike, and dearest of friends Jim and Jan.

Take care, God speed.


Cheryl

Ps my darling Jim, if you need ANYTHING call, you have our numbers.

[Prewar]

Dear Jim, very sorry to hear of your sad loss. Best wishes Scott.

[cookie]

My Dearest Gentleman Jim,

I cannot believe that the Lady Jan has passed.

I had the privilege of meeting truly the most enchanting and captivating of spirits in life. To be around Jan McArthur wasn’t just a privilege it was an honour and your love for one another was abundantly evident – even to those who are oblivious to such things.

The radiance that Mike has already spoken of is so easily, I think, proven. For those who weren’t there at the legendary May 2009 UBC meet, we had a lovely meal in the pub round the corner from the hotel, Mike and I arranged a bottle of Jan’s favourite tipple Champagne and cranberry juice as a toast to your attendance. The Barman was due to go to the USA within a couple of weeks and was completely taken with you, our dynamic duo. I think we all kind of passed the time of day as you do with said barman, but nothing special.

At the following October UBC meet a few of us headed on down to the same pub and unusually these days, the same barman was working. I mentioned to him that we were looking for a bottle of champagne and some cranberry juice as a toast to our dear friends in the USA who couldn’t be with us. His reaction was incredible …….are they here?.......the American couple………..are they here? – He was so gutted when he learnt that you weren’t.

I’m rambling, I know, but you’re right Jim, somehow it helps.

Although it may have been later in life when you met, Mike always says “you wouldn’t have liked me when I was younger and I wouldn’t have appreciated you” I’ve seen photos of him – and he’s right! Good things come to those who wait! However long we are with or exposed to these wonderful people, our lives are enriched and we are better people for knowing them.

Jan is already missed and as each day goes on it will as they say get easier, but with each day we will also remember more and more of her here. She made sure we could never forget her – and we shouldn’t. She is a rare and beautiful creature.

One of my fondest memories is the cheeky spin she put on my description of the adorable little “garter pistol” she kept - I’m sure you know what I’m talking about.

I could witter all night, but I’m sure you, Jim, have other more pressing matters to be getting on with.

Love to all of you, especially my true love, my soul mate, Mike, and dearest of friends Jim and Jan.

Take care, God speed.


Cheryl

Ps my darling Jim, if you need ANYTHING call, you have our numbers.

Beautifully written Cheryl, and now this big southern softie has a tear rolling down his cheek. I was one of the lucky ones to share the meal with Jan and Jim as mentioned above, and couldn't have put into words how special that evening was, so thank you.