Jim
I do not know of a single person who met her who does not miss Jan.

However, Most of us also met YOU and enjoyed that experience as well. Whilst we miss her and regret her passing I for one, I can not speak directly for the others, would very much like to continue our aquaintance with you in the longer term.

Miss Jan, that's right, respectfull and proper.

Just, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, remember you have our support and your best interests at heart. Our problem is the distance between us in the physical sense and that we can not turn up to help you when you are feeling despondent and in need of solace.
We are here on line. What support we can give, we will give freely.

With the greatest of respect.
Jim D