You seem to be confusing the referendum with the general election. The referendum is over, what happening now is the general election, and if people vote for the SNP it's not for an imminent rerun of the referendum, it's to elect MPs' and if those in Scotland vote SNP in sufficient numbers and in turn they have some influence whats wrong with that? thats what passes for democracy in the UK. The status quo has been great, yeah the mainstream UK parties haven't been exactly "optimal", have they?
As for experimentation on the Scots, then to follow for the rUK. Ballaches, we've been devolved this past 15 years and the last Scotland first social experiment was now more than 30 years ago now, so from my point of view your post is just a tad alarmist. Just saying.