As someone who’s lived with an in law in critical care for the past four months, quite frankly I’m disgusted by this ‘person’.
Seeing my Mrs battle deep depression, whilst personally trying to deal with all the shared emotions of having a loved one in such a state - and whilst continually wishing and praying for their return to good health, has been exhausting to say the least.
We’ve had genuine heartfelt messages from friends, including some from on this forum, who have been touched by our unfortunate experience. And as such I simply cannot find any sympathy or understanding for someone who’d use something like the loss of an in law, as ‘an excuse’ and then pass it off so lightly as a ‘white lie’ after you’ve been caught out.

Carl Garbet, you’re a maggot.