Every forum I've ever been on goes this way, and clubs as well.
I am not a people person, I don't do forums or clubs very well.
I only ever try and help people, but more than often that help is taken the wrong way, most likely because of my delivery style.
I am 100% honest and well meaning and try and help everybody to the best of my ability.
I have never been accused of being 'on the spectrum', that is a first, but I guess it fits.
Changing my avatar just gives people a warning as to what I'm like.

Just remember, so far you have called me :-
"Chip on my shoulder"
"on the spectrum"
"cock"

I on the other hand, I have just offered you advice to your original question. It is you that is name calling. It is not my fault your personal life is tied up 7 days a week caring for somebody. I still say you would be better travelling to a known optician for the best result, eyes are a tricky thing and you are better off doing the best you can in that department.

Just my opinion, and sorry for any offence given as none is meant.