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    All the best, sad news, hope things improve for everyone involved.

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    Continuing thoughts and all our love, Craig.
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    Hi all.
    We’ve been totally taken aback by all of your kind words, thank you all so much.

    John is still semi conscious and down to minimal life support. He’s having visits pretty much constantly from 11am to 8pm (they allow these extended hours in the critical unit at the QE), so if he can hear, he’s being continually updated on the World Cup by his family and friends.
    I have to say, the people who staff the QE and the specialists who are looking after John, are nothing short of angels. If I could have my time over again, I’d learn medicine. These people are the true heroes of the world and I’ve no words enough to phrase and thank them.
    We’re continuing praying for a dignified end result for him.

    Thanks again all, Craig and co x
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    Thinking of you all there.

    How are things, Craig? xxxxxx
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    All our hopes and best wishes are with you and your family at this time Craig.

    Kindest regards, Hal and family.

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    Blimey... I can't believe I missed this Craig . I'm so sorry to hear of this.. only thing I can say about major family trauma is...
    It always feels 20 times harder/worse to manage it during the event. Whatever happens you and your friends & family will deal with it, Just because we're increadably adaptable, human, and you just will. There will always be time to smile again and it can be amazing what can happen, it can be a huge surprise as something's you just can't imagine.
    Hang in there mate nothing is ever completely sure or set in stone until it's actually happened and I'll put money on this event drawing your family closer.
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    Hello again all.
    Huge thanks again for all the posts, messages and emails we’ve received.
    John is still unconscious but breathing for himself without the ventilation machines. I know that’s nothing amazing given that he’ll live the rest of his days paralysed from a bed but at least he’s not got tubes running down his throat so is supposedly more comfortable.
    Sarah and I are living day to day to be perfect honest, we don’t hope or grieve and seem to be in a sort of limbo. We don’t know what to expect and we’re both off work so we’re spending extremely carefully and just doing all we can to provide something approaching a normal kind of lifestyle for Eleanor and the dog, whilst sorting out legal stuff and visiting the QE. That’s all we can do really.
    Sorry there’s nothing more positive that I can add, I wish there was - but your sentiments do help, we really do have some wonderful friends and all of your kind thoughts are deeply appreciated.

    Best, Craig and co.
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    Hi Craig
    Still wishing you and your wife and family all the best for now and the future .
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    You and your family continue to be in my thoughts daily Craig. Take care mate x
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    Dear Lord Craig, I've only just read this.

    I don't honestly know if sharing this with you will help or not but as I filled with tears reading your initial post it did bring back this story ...

    Several years back my brother was in a car accident. No one really knows what happened. No other car involved. He lost control at 30mph in the middle of town and hit a lamppost. Minimal damage to car and not a mark on my brother. First people to get to him said he seemed confused. He was taken to hospital, still confused, and was put in an induced coma and sent to Intensive Care. Scans showed multiple bleeds in his brain. I was told that he may just wake up when they take him off sedation and ask for a cup of tea ... but be prepared for the fact that the neuros expect him to be vegetative state. They tried a few times to wake him up but he just started fitting and they put him back into a coma. After a week they were struggling to keep his oxygen levels up and further tests revealed that a 'superbug' had destroyed parts of his heart and lungs. He was taken off life support and allowed to go.

    The zombified state that you go through during that time whilst family are constantly at the hospital, being there for each other and hanging on to hopes of miracles, can only be known to those that have experienced it. One minute you are cracking jokes and things are almost normal, and the next grasping onto a loved one desperate for support as that ice cold wave hits you again.

    You are in my thoughts matey and I'll pray for strength for all of you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bozzer View Post
    Dear Lord Craig, I've only just read this.

    I don't honestly know if sharing this with you will help or not but as I filled with tears reading your initial post it did bring back this story ...

    Several years back my brother was in a car accident. No one really knows what happened. No other car involved. He lost control at 30mph in the middle of town and hit a lamppost. Minimal damage to car and not a mark on my brother. First people to get to him said he seemed confused. He was taken to hospital, still confused, and was put in an induced coma and sent to Intensive Care. Scans showed multiple bleeds in his brain. I was told that he may just wake up when they take him off sedation and ask for a cup of tea ... but be prepared for the fact that the neuros expect him to be vegetative state. They tried a few times to wake him up but he just started fitting and they put him back into a coma. After a week they were struggling to keep his oxygen levels up and further tests revealed that a 'superbug' had destroyed parts of his heart and lungs. He was taken off life support and allowed to go.

    The zombified state that you go through during that time whilst family are constantly at the hospital, being there for each other and hanging on to hopes of miracles, can only be known to those that have experienced it. One minute you are cracking jokes and things are almost normal, and the next grasping onto a loved one desperate for support as that ice cold wave hits you again.

    You are in my thoughts matey and I'll pray for strength for all of you.
    Col, I’m so sorry to hear of your brothers’ accident. I now know what you’ve experienced and understand that words are impossible to find. You’ve absolutely nailed it there with your explaination, mate.
    One minute we’re laughing at his quirks, the next we’re in floods as we ask how this has happened. And with no ‘end’ in sight, it’s draining to say the least. We honestly don’t know what to feel or to expect next.
    He came to our place at 7am on the morning of the accident to borrow my chainsaw. We had a quick chat about the little’un not sleeping well just lately (he was always asking about the well being of everyone else), agreed to meet up over the weekend for some shooting and off he went. Never did I think that would be the last I’d see of him.
    I’ve lived through the deaths of the vast majority of my own family (my own dad was only 49 when he passed, my uncles, grandfathers and grandmothers etc passing quickly afterwards in what was an awful period of my life) but never have I had to deal with such an awful ongoing grief like this. I thought these were bizarre things, that people read about in dusty magazines in waiting rooms, that happen to somebody else, miles away.
    All I can say is love your loved ones like there’s no tomorrow as these things genuinely do happen.
    Take care bud, Craig.
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    So sorry to hear of your harrowing tale, Col.

    And continuing prayers and love to Craig and the family. Constantly in our thoughts.
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    And again, Craig.

    How you holding up, brother?
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    Quote Originally Posted by TonyL View Post
    And again, Craig.

    How you holding up, brother?
    Hello mate.
    Day by day to be honest. Sarah’s not too good so I’m trying to juggle all the bits and pieces whilst keeping busy so as to occupy my own head.
    John remains in a vegetative state and hasn’t improved. Surgeons found another aneurysm on his brain which is causing pressure/fluid increase and also obviously poses the threat of bursting. With this addressed he’ll not only be out of the danger area of another brain bleed but should, theoretically, recover to a higher degree. Then if he has the capacity and desire, can inform the powers that be that he wants their care withdrawn.
    He’s been booked in this morning for what we’ve been told is a very serious operation and should there be any problem, they won’t resuscitate. So we’re going to be a bit anxious over the next few hours and will be waiting for a call.
    I’ll update you later on, mate.
    Very best, Craig and family.
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    I really have no words, mate, and they'd only be scant consolation.

    Just be assured that there are lots of people thinking of you all.

    Love, Tone, Family and all the Boingerfolk and good people of the BBS.
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