Quote Originally Posted by airtech View Post
So if you have a sick mother in hospital and you have been told to expect the worst what will you do after travelled 6k miles to see then. Would you say hi it I need to be back at work Monday. Well I can see where your family morels are. Not me I’m afraid I will stand by my wife in her time of need no matter how long it is
No one is saying you shouldn't stand by your wife, or come back to work. All they are asking for is a bit of communication to let them know what's happening.
You've found the time to make several posts on here, so surely you could send a few e mails out to explain the circumstances.
Most people don't mind waiting for things if they know there are certain circumstances causing the problem.
You've come on here all shouty when you could have just explained what was happening, in a calm and sensible manner. You haven't really done yourself any favours.

I'll definitely be adding you to my "do not deal with" list.

Having said that, I do wish you the best and hope your current personal situation improves.