Unfortunately humour isnt always that easy to convey in text, I should have put a strategic smiley somewhere in that post
Another factor is that long term banter context may be a little too internal between a few members to be picked up by all.
And I'm not a native english speaker, which may complicate matters even more.
The point is that many members on here have a tone of "friendly banter" which may look rude to some that havent followed it over time.
But its all usually friendly meant